00:00:00Joann Lampman (#243) Transcript
AB: This interview with JoAnn Lampman is being recorded on April 20, 1982.
The first area, I wanted to talk about, I wanted to have you talk about, was
just a little about your childhood, and your home life, and the school that you
went to, and your family, just to give a background and put things in context a
little bit.
JL: Well, you probably haven't met many people who are Madison [INAUDIBLE], have
you? I was actually born in Madison, and I have met not all that many people
that have been, in the university situation. And I was the daughter of a YMCA
secretary. My dad was first the physical director of this downtown Y, and then
the general secretary which is the top [UNINTELLIGIBLE]. And we moved from Adams
00:01:00Street, is where my father built his first house, out here in [INAUDIBLE].
Matter of fact, it's one block over. And so when Bob and I moved back here, we
sort of knew where we wanted to live. We at least knew the city, [INAUDIBLE].
And I was one of three kids, the youngest. My mother was a very, is a very smart
gal, and I guess if people had been working, in her day, she would have gotten
money for what she did, which was a lot of religious education kind of work. She
was just a very involved churchwoman in those days, and since. So our life was
sort of, on all sides, influenced by the YMCA, and the Presbyterian church. So
00:02:00that molded us and a lot of our attitudes that we had about life, and
[INAUDIBLE] the kind of people we would be. The people we would marry, even.
AB: Did you have ideas, as a girl, about the sort of person, what the person you
married would do, and so forth? What your life would be like?
JL: Not in the least. I never thought about it. I can't remember ever thinking
about it, until I got to the university. I was very active in high school
[INAUDIBLE], and liked what I was doing, and enjoyed high school, and here,
nowadays, kits don't enjoy high school, for instance. I thought it was just a
lot of fun. And was a good student. And I guess I never thought much about
marriage at that point. Or about the kind of a guy I wanted to marry.
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But then, at the university, lo and behold, I met Bob the very first year. And I
was, knowing my background now, you'd know I'd go over to that press house.
That's where I sort of made my home, as did a lot of people that I came to know
and like, and also Bob Lampman. And Doc Lauer, who was minister at that time,
said to Bob, I want you to meet a young girl I know, and he brought him over,
and introduced me to Bob.
I guess at that point, I did start thinking about the kind of guy I'd like to
marry. But he had no idea about being a professor at that time. [INAUDIBLE] He
was a senior. And he thought more of seminary.
AB: So he was quite oriented towards religion.
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JL: Yeah, he came from a very strong Methodist background, out in the middle of
the state, [INAUDIBLE].
AB: That's where they raise potatoes.
JL: That's exactly where they raise potatoes. And his father was a high school
teacher and principal. But the background was generally farming, as a lot of our
parents and grandparents did. I think that he also, as I recall, he thought he
would be-- well, he thought strongly about law. He was taking a minor in law,
and a major in Econ.
And at that point of course, the war was [UNINTELLIGIBLE]. And it turned out, he
didn't have choices, to think about anything. The only choice he had was, shall
we get married or shan't we get married? And it's like, maybe you recall my
00:05:00saying to you up at the [UNINTELLIGIBLE] that day. I think maybe if there hadn't
been a war, we undoubtedly wouldn't have gotten married. Well, his sights were
going onto graduate school, or law school, and I certainly would have finished
college, which I still have a year to do.
So I'm not one of your highly educated, at least formally educated
[UNINTELLIGIBLE]. I suppose if I had stopped to add up all the courses I've
taken since or applied them, I would have long ago graduated.
AB: You just pursued areas that you were interested in, rather than formally
trying to complete a degree. That makes more sense when you're-- [INAUDIBLE]
this is making noise. Put this down on the floor.
So as you were growing up in Madison, were your family friends with a number of
00:06:00people from the university, or did you have a different circle?
JL: Well, actually, we, meaning my parents' friends. Well, I would say, my
parents' friends definitely have been within their own YMCA and church-related
kinds of activities. But our next door neighbors were the Elvehjems. And we used
to babysit the Elvehjem kids. And mother and Connie Elvehjem are still quite
close. When they see each other, they have lots to talk about still, [INAUDIBLE].
But I knew kids of faculty at West High. And I guess I wasn't always, as kids
aren't always terribly aware of what people, of friends' parents did. There
always was a certain amount of talk, but I never associated it necessarily with
00:07:00them. With the idea that I would like to be a faculty wife, or marry a
professor. Never thought along those lines. It's what people do.
AB: I did!
JL: Did you really?
AB: When I was a child. A little bit. Not a lot.
JL: You mean to say that marriage was really sort of uppermost in your mind,
even though you're a lot younger than I was? I wasn't thinking about that!
AB: No, I didn't think a lot about it, but I sort of had some ideas about--
JL: I guess my folks' tack, actually, was that you marry someone-- not
necessarily within the church, but you don't marry out of your kind, sort of.
That there are enough problems, they thought, in marriages without marrying a
Greek, or a Catholic, or a Jew. They weren't prejudiced, necessarily. I mean,
00:08:00that wasn't part of it. It's just that they thought that life would certainly
have fewer stresses if you married your own kind. I don't know that they put it
just that way, because that does sound almost bigoted. But they weren't, they
particularly weren't that.
And I feel very fortunate about the attitude my folks did pass on to us. I think
that they did a good job with family-raising. And you can only assess those
things sometimes when you look back. Mother was very instrumental in organizing
dancing classes for us. There wasn't anything like that in the town at that
time. It seemed to me she had very forward-looking ideas about young people in
general, about sex, and how to be instructed within the home and the church.
00:09:00Nothing was done in schools in those days. I don't know how much is being done
now [UNINTELLIGIBLE].
Anyway, I think that they did give the three of us a very sound view of that
aspect of life. But they didn't give us, I feel, and I am even a bit resentful
about it, I guess, is good conversation about the world. So that when I got to
college, those things that people talked about was ever so enlightening and
broadening. I don't have the kind of memory about these things, that my sister
had. She seems to be able to have a facility for that kind of memory. But I
don't-- it wasn't so big in our family life, that I remember having good
00:10:00discussions about the war, even.
And they were very Republican. I do remember my father talking about that man,
you know, Roosevelt. And I don't know when I began to turn away from that.
Could've been after I met Bob, who came from a very different background.
AB: Was his background politically more liberal?
JL: It was progressive.
AB: Coming from a more rural area, I guess, that'd be illogical.
JL: Yeah, and my folks were sort this of [INAUDIBLE]. My mother's father was
very republican. So I mean, she came by it naturally. They were both
college-educated, both graduated from Northwestern.
AB: When you got to UW, what did you major in?
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JL: Well, I was just a freshman when I met Bob, of course, and everything after
that was sort of down the hole. But I was an English major. It wasn't just a
liberal arts bent type--
AB: And when did you marry, at the end of your freshman year?
JL: No, actually, at the end of my sophomore year. I had two years here. And
then Bob had gone on into the Navy, and had had his cadet training, and had just
absolutely put the thought of further education out of his mind. I mean, who
could think about anything but the war in those years? I mean, he was just
stuck. And I guess there weren't, I didn't know anybody, and I guess he didn't
either, who protested. I mean, there wasn't that's the kind of activity you had
in later times. So he came, after his cadet training, came back to Madison, and
00:12:00we were married in the Presbyterian church. Proper fashion. Mrs. Elvehjem
arranging the flowers, and friends of my mother doing the calling of the
invitations, because he came back on a leave, you know, all of a sudden he could
come, and suddenly, all our friends got on the telephone, and we had a full,
proper ceremony. And my sister had been married just three weeks before.
AB: Oh my goodness!
JL: That had been planned, mind you. And so I wore her wedding dress, and the
kids, we picked the friends who could fit into the same bridesmaids' dresses. [INAUDIBLE]
AB: So when he finished with his military service--?
JL: Then, let's see. Well, we had been in Florida. He was down there, by then,
00:13:00doing teaching stint of navigation; he was a navigator in the Navy
[UNINTELLIGIBLE]. He decided to-- this is in '46--
AB: Oh, well actually, I didn't want to just jump over that whole period. Maybe
you just talk about after you were married, where you went then, and--
JL: I-- he was based first in San Diego and then up in Seattle. He was to fly to
the Aleutian Islands, and be based up there. But actually, he was based in
Seattle and he flew out of Seattle and to the Aleutian Islands and so on. But
because we were so newly married, we decided that I would try to find school out
on the west coast, preferably a smaller school, near Seattle, if possible. I
guess I didn't consider going to the University of Washington, I don't quite
know why at the time, and I can't recall why I made a decision to go to Reed
College. Because I didn't know a soul there. Didn't know anybody in Portland. I
just knew Reed was a good school, and it was small, and I could probably get in.
00:14:00And I don't know that I could, nowadays. It's kind of a classy, intellectual
school. But at that time, of course, there weren't many man around, and were
probably taking anybody they could get! Anyway, they did welcome me. And so I
had another year there.
AB: So did you live on campus?
JL: I lived on campus. Most people lived on campus. There were very few city
people there. And I made some good friends that I still keep up with.
AB: And it wouldn't necessarily have happened with only a year.
JL: Yeah. And I took interesting courses, and I met interesting professors. In
fact, one of my professors I've kept up with until he died, in Seattle, just a
bit ago, and I still correspond with his 99 year old widow in a nursing home
there. Anyway, I have kept up with some of the Reed College people. I don't know
00:15:00too much about what's happening at Reed itself these days, but I keep up with
particular people.
And Bob would, on his, well, whatever they-- when he'd get back into Seattle, I
would fly up from Portland, and we'd have a day or two at the Meany Hotel, near
the university. You know the Meany hotel? Every room a corner room? And that was
a set of all these little bits of honeymoon that we would have, when he would
come back. But anyway, at the end of that school year, as it turned out, he came
back just at a good time, and we few down to, or we drove to Florida, actually,
and he was at the Banana River Naval Air Station, which is now Cape Kennedy. And
our first son was born down there.
And I was pregnant with a second when the war ended, and the put all our little
00:16:00belongings in the car, and drove to Madison, Wisconsin, and he registered as a
graduate student in Econ, Economics. And we lived, mind you.
So much of our early life-- really, I wasn't a faculty wife, and he wasn't on
the faculty. We married very young. I was like, almost 20, and he was 23. And so
I wasn't think about being a faculty wife, at that time, and he wasn't thinking
about being, necessarily, a faculty. But, I mean, he could have gone in several
different directions. He could have been an economist with a bank, or a
corporation, or whatever. And anyway, we lived out there at Badger Village. Have
you ever heard of anybody living out of Badger Village?
AB: I've heard of it.
JL: Now that was rough living. Kids these days that live there at Eagle Heights
don't know what it's about. I mean, we had a coal stove, for instance, in the
middle of our living room. And my first son burned his arm, learning to walk
00:17:00sort of out there.
AB: It wasn't a Quonset hut, was it?
JL: No, no, they were row houses. Or they were duplexes, mostly? Yeah.
[INAUDIBLE] I think they were duplexes. But lots of them, and on that slat,
there, where the ammunitions plant is. It's just a giant--
AB: This was at Baraboo?
JL: Yeah. Isn't that Baraboo? Yeah. You hit there before you get to the hill. I
mean, it was on that plant where the ammunition plant was. I think that plant
was still there, and there may be a few buildings on the other side of the
street, which was where we all lived. It was-- and then the guys had to take a
bus in, every day, 30 miles.
AB: Were you able to, I suppose there were lots of young parents. Did you make
friends there?
JL: Well, nobody I've kept up with. Although I've-- the Heffernans were there.
We did know them. Justice Heffernan, you know Nat Heffernan. And I guess I've
00:18:00heard a lot of people, since, who were there. We were there, I believe it was
just a year, and then we bought a little house here, near Sherwood. Burbank
place, right near [? JoJo's ?] now. And we lived there a year, after our second
child was born.
AB: So life in Badger Village sounds as though it might have been a little depressing.
JL: It was depressing. And it was rough, and we had no money to speak of. Well,
I shouldn't say that. Because he still had Navy money. Maybe we were richer than
we were for the next ten years, I don't know! Well, we always managed to get
along. But it was such a grim little place, and we didn't attempt to do a lot of
fixing up and stuff. We had, you know, I was terribly busy with being pregnant
with a second, and having a boy a year old. We had two 13 months apart. So I was
too busy to think about anything else. I don't even remember doing a lot of
00:19:00reading, at that time or anything.
AB: Well, it's a holding operation, strictly a holding operation--
JL: A holding operation, right. I guess I didn't complain about it. I think
women nowadays might really object to something like that. They would really
feel resentful. I don't remember having any of those feelings. We were very in
love, and very happy with one another, and we were happy that there were kids
coming along. And I guess there was money to feed and clothe them, because I--
AB: Was that the GI bill, was he falling under the GI bill?
JL: Exactly, so there was some money. I don't recall that amount, those amounts
were. Of course it went a long way by comparison to today.
AB: So he was a full-time student, and you were just kind of being a mother, and
that was it.
JL: That was it. And you didn't have long-term goals. I didn't. He perhaps did,
00:20:00but I mean, getting through this day was goal enough in those days. I don't
think I was a very good mother. I wasn't really, I mean, a housewife kind of a
mother. I wasn't really prepared in any particular way. I guess. The only thing
I was ever, I mean, aside from helping mother dust and bake cookies, she wasn't
very great housekeeper herself, and she didn't like to do a lot of--
AB: Did you have people at your house who would come in and do that?
JL: Well, at some point we did. I think it was more like, when we got on into
the junior high years. Mother did have a lady come and help her do things. But
up until that time, I remember, my sister always had the job of ironing shirts.
She got nickels. And I didn't like to iron. But I did like the kitchen, and I've
always liked the kitchen, and I did all the cookie baking. I have recipes from
00:21:00way back. And I did like that aspect of it.
AB: So that was probably one thing you did when your kids were little, was
probably plunged into cooking and enjoyed it.
JL: Oh, yeah. And I do that with my grandchildren. When they come, we always
spend a lot of time baking cookies, and working in the kitchen. The boys as well
as the girls. This isn't necessarily any kind of a sexist thing with me I just--
they look forward to coming here, because grandma likes to cook, for instance.
So I involve them, and we have a good time.
AB: Yeah, that's nice, to be able to do it and feel comfortable with--
JL: And I don't let the mess of it particularly bother me. I've gotten to be a
lot neater than I used to be. As a matter of fact, I know this is jumping the
gun just a bit on the story, but when we had three little kids, we lived in
another hovel situation. And when you have three kids, there's always somebody
00:22:00sick, right? Or there's a mess, always. And we entertained one of Bob's
students, it was a nice young man from Spokane. And his girl was coming over.
And this was our launch. We said, well, come on out and have supper with us. You
know, bring her out and we'll have supper.
And the next thing I knew, was we were bending over helping our kids out front
with something. In fact, it was our son's fifth birthday, and we were involved
in putting a bike together. And on this long walk, we heard heels clicking. And
I don't think I had a pair of high heels in those days! But this lady came
clicking down our way, and they were both dressed to the teeth. And we had the
kind of living room-- the whole house couldn't have been any bigger than from,
you know, this to there, and we had, you know, the twin bed thing that was the
00:23:00couch in the living room, where you had to put a thousand pillows in the bag, so
that your legs wouldn't be up on the bed.
Anyway, it was very awkward situation. It turned out that later it was told to
me, that she had said, if this is what being a professor's wife is, I don't want
any part in it. That came to me many, many years later, and actually, it's
someone whose name you would know, so she shall remain nameless, but I remember
it startled me, and did get me thinking about the kind of rough life we did
lead. And I don't know that it was any different than any young faculty family
with three kids would find it today, but possibly, I see an awful lot of young
people today with ever so much more money than we had, buying houses here in the
00:24:00[? Comar ?], or Shorewood. They're young people, I don't know whether they
inherited it, or what. But my folks didn't have any money, and Bob's folks
certainly didn't have any money, and whatever we had, Bob earned. And it was
never a very high pay scale in those days.
AB: When did he get his first faculty appointment?
JL: That was in 1948. We went out to the University of California at Berkeley
for the final year, before his PhD. But he actually got it from the University
of Wisconsin He was out there doing a thesis on the sailor's union. And so we
lived out there, and the job, actually, the first offer came from Ames, Iowa,
mind you. And he was planning to accept that, because there wasn't anything else
00:25:00at that moment. In fact, jobs were sort of tight, and all the graduate students
in that particular class [UNINTELLIGIBLE] out there said that they would never
leave the Bay Area. I mean, everybody was so wild about that place. They said,
no, they would never leave the Bay Area. I think now that there may be two of
that bunch who stayed, and everybody else had to eat.
But then the job came from the University of Washington, and that intrigued us
ever so much more. We sort of wanted to stay in the northwest if we could, or on
the west coast, if we could. And that intrigued us, so he wrote to Ames and said
that he was taking another job. And we moved up there when our daughter, was
born at Berkeley, was, what was she, six months old. And we moved into the Union
00:26:00Bay Village, it was called. It was the housing that would be comparable to Eagle
Heights. Well, it wouldn't be Eagle Heights, it would be University Houses. But
bears no resemblance to what you see up here. They were also duplexes, set in
large courts. There would be one, two, three, four, five duplexes in each court.
And a lot of those people, we have kept up with. That was a very warm and
wonderful time for us. And we knew very few people who could afford to buy
houses at that time. I think one of our friends did move out, and buy a house.
And I suspect that their fathers gave them the money to do that, because there
wasn't that kind of money. I think our salary was like $400 a month. And of
course, it went a lot further, mind you. We thought we were pretty rich. But
00:27:00never quite rich enough to buy a house. So we didn't. We rented.
AB: Was your life rather informal?
JL: Rather informal? That's got to be an understatement! I can't think of
anything formal we did. We did go to church in those years, and we did meet some
people. We went to the University Congregational Church out there, and it's been
the-- it actually turned out to be a very big thing in our children's lives, as
well as ours. It was the one place where we did meet some non-university people.
And also a lot of university people. But we did things in those years that we
look back on with great affection. And it turns out now that our daughter just
00:28:00had her two children baptized there, and our son came down from British
Columbia, and he had his three children baptized there.
AB: Really! So that was just a very important place for them.
JL: Yeah. And it wasn't, and our children are not really terribly
church-oriented. And we are not particularly, either. But we did teach Sunday
School in those years, and there was a very fine church program, Sunday School
kind of a thing out there. And it was called Character School. It was run by a
Dr. [? Liggum ?] from Schenectady, New York.
AB: It sounds very New England-y.
JL: Yeah, it was. And it was a program that has since died out. It's not there
now. But we thought that was just a wonderful way to teach religion to kids. And
you didn't read the Bible and such. But everything sort of--
AB: It's more ethics.
JL: Yeah, it was ethics, right. And in fact, we have a good laugh about our
older son. He is, to this day, extremely persistent, and we said he always had
00:29:00too many units in persistence in Character School. They were sort of divided up
in units like that. But anyway, they were all very fond of that church. And so
two of them had-- and those children are young, they haven't really thought
about baptizing their children at what would be called the usual ages of
baptism. But somehow, they've come back to it. So that was [INAUDIBLE].
But the university housing itself was, those Union Bay Village houses have just
been torn down within the year, and rather nice places put up. But they were an
eyesore, what was considered an eyesore, in a very fancy district, probably
comparable to Shorewood. And the people that had to ride by Union Village on
their home every day just thought it was a terrible blight on the community. And
perhaps it was.
AB: But it sounds like kind of fun place to be.
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JL: It was, in the same way that University Houses and Eagle Heights, We just
met all kinds of people from all, not just, I mean, there were a few from
economics, but we still keep up with them.
AB: Has that influenced-- this makes it sound very formal, but the sort of, the
pattern of making friends, you think because of that experience you might have a
different group of friends now, or more varied group of friends?
JL: Well, possibly. I wouldn't be able to exactly document that. The fact of the
matter is, we came back to my hometown, and I think that, probably, was more
instrumental in the breadth of our friendships at this point. Because I did,
that there were just an awful lot of people that I knew from high school, would
perhaps I haven't kept up with in the intervening years, but I established contact.
AB: But you had a wonderful basis.
JL: Oh, I had a-- and Bob enjoys all of those people. He loves getting away from
00:31:00the university people.
AB: And those people tend to be in business--?
JL: Some, yeah, some. And then in music, and--
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--the wife of a professor influenced me, to the extent that I felt I needed to
be a faculty wife, with quotes. I just, I've never really participated in the
organization. I've always send in my dues, because I'm told that that is helpful
to scholarships, and so on. The only other thing that we did, and we did it as a
couple, not necessary as a faculty member, was we [INAUDIBLE] students. And that
interest came about because we did a lot of traveling, and met people abroad,
and many of them came here, and we've performed that duty of being hosts and hostesses.
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AB: So that has been an interest that's continued, it's sort of a commitment
that you've felt.
JL: Now, we haven't been doing that particular thing for a number of years, but
this year, we had an Australian daughter, and we did go to the picnic, and so
on. But I've never been, I've never participated in the organizational part of it.
AB: Let me ask you about a related area, and that is, have you at various times
helped your husband with the matter of reading books, or--?
JL: Never. I'm really not basically interested in economics. He might ask me
about a word, or about a choice of words. I've always enjoyed words. I'm not
particularly articulate, but if I had some good dictionary or thesaurus, I might
do that kind of digging and thinking with him, or for him, even. But I don't
00:33:00edit for him, and I don't read his things, necessarily. It's not exactly bedtime reading.
AB: And typing?
JL: I type miserably, fortunately. I mean, I'm not sure I would have done that
even if I was a typer. I guess I always had enough to do. And he's never imposed
that kind of thing on me. If I'd done it willingly, it wouldn't have been an
imposition, of course. But I mean, he didn't say, ever, wouldn't you take a
typing course so that you could help me do some of this stuff? Actually, the
typing pool in his economics department has always been adequate. He's never had
any problem getting things done. No, he's never sort of overwhelmed me with his work.
AB: How about, to what extent has there been sort of a departmental social life,
and events that you had to attend, and dinner parties within the department that were--?
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JL: Well, I guess I never felt that I had to do any of that. In the earlier
days, now, we came here in '58, the department was ever so much smaller, and I
can't tell you exactly what it was. But certainly triple that now. I think it
always was a big department, but it wasn't overwhelming in those days. Nowadays,
no one pretends that they can entertain the economic department all at once.
AB: Really?
JL: Oh! What have they got to be? There have got to be 60 people in it or something?
AB: Well, are there annual cocktail parties or something like that?
JL: I think there has been an attempt, over the years, for the chairman to do
something early on. The current chairman now has done brunches. And he has them
at the university, he doesn't them at his home. Now, there was one chairman's
00:35:00wife who, it was a second marriage, and she came from the medical school
tradition, which is ever so much more-- elegant, I guess. And this was Betty [?
Erly ?]. And she always managed to do an elegant cocktail party, and it always
seems to be a terrible expense. And somehow, they carried it off. I didn't know
where the money came from, but when Bob was chairman, I assure you, we didn't do
that! I mean, we just didn't. We couldn't afford to do that. There have been
Christmas parties, especially, and I'm talking about, now, the early '60s, where
attempts were made to have a Christmas party and everybody brought their own
bottle, but there have been very few sort of formal, whole department things
00:36:00where people were expected to come.
AB: How about, well, in History there are little sort of subgroups, what are
called caucuses, sort of interest-- they have to do with areas professors teach
in, like there's an American caucus. Is there any kind of subgroup like that,
where people would see one another more frequently, because they'd be on the
same committee, and that's something?
JL: As couples, now, you're talking about?
AB: Well, no. I mean, the men seeing one another more often, and as a result,
perhaps the couples see something more of one another.
JL: I suppose that does happen. I'm not so aware of it, actually. What does tend
to happen, because it is such a large department, is that if there's a visiting
fireman, a fellow who department, whose area, the guys coming in, will attempt
to arrange, well, he'll have a seminar, and then, maybe they will get some of
the people who are interested in the subject, and their wives, possibly, but not
00:37:00necessarily, to go out for dinner, or to have a drink at the house. And I guess
we've done that, over the years. But we don't-- sort of an open invitations,
anybody in the department could come. Like, Bob never bothered to bring home all
those invitations. And so they say, I didn't see you at so-and-so's. And I say,
well, I've got one of those absent-minded professors. He either decided that he
didn't want to do it, and I was never for doing that, partly because we had kids
at home at cocktail type times. And so maybe that sort of thing happened at the
age I am now, where you could get out. And we always hated to invite somebody,
to get a babysitter, to come and have a drink, and spend money to go out for
dinner? I mean, wow. That's what I would call an imposition. And I guess we did
refuse things like that.
And I guess, and I have to think back, because the one thing we did feel we had
00:38:00to do, early on-- see, I'm tending to look at how things are now. But when we
came, and Bob came to help Professor Witte, first of all. He came for a year
before we actually came here, because he needed help. He was the chairman, and
things were overwhelming him. He was getting near retirement. So he did come for
a year that year, and then the next year, we came permanently. But Mrs. Perlman,
at that time, did have a sort of event where we were expected to come. And Mrs.
Witte did this to me once, to. She called and said, So-and-So, Professor
So-and-So from Princeton's coming, and I want you and Bob to come to dinner. Or
we're taking you out, I guess is what she said. And I said, well, we did have
00:39:00another engagement. Well, I know Evelyn won't hear of it.
And so I-- it was-- I did something I would never, ever do again, and I called
my hostess, and I said, we had had this invitation, and she would not hear of
our not coming. And I broke that engagement. I would never do that again. And I
think it was not looked upon kindly, as I can understand at this point. But I
was sort of caught between being sort of, Bob was supposed to be there. And we
were sort of on deck. But that was early on, Professor Witte and Professor
Perlman were old-time faculty.
AB: So that was almost the pattern from another generation.
JL: That was very much so. And I can remember Mrs. Perlman had high teas. And we
00:40:00were all invited. Kids, too. That was Brenda. And she did like to do it very
properly. But as I recall, we were only invited once to dinner. Do you suppose
it's because we had three kids? Yes, it was very proper. And they were very good
to us, as young faculty, however. And very kind, generally. And I guess we had--
our affection was mostly with Professor [? Whitty ?] and his wife. And then
Harold Groves was at that era too [UNINTELLIGIBLE] he was in public finance. And
he had a million PhD students, and they all came back at his retirement, and
they had a wonderful seminar. And Bob keeps up with a lot of those people, that
00:41:00were more or less the same era as he.
AB: You mentioned that over the years, you've taken quite a few courses. What
areas did they tend to be in?
JL: Well, mostly art. Art history. I guess I've done a lot of things over the
years. Part of them stemmed early on from just being frantic to get out the
house, and I can remember at The University of Washington, for instance, Bob
would rush home at five o'clock or something, and we would push dinner down
everybody's throats, so that I could go off to a woodworking course at the
Seattle Technical School. And I don't know why I picked woodworking. Honestly, I
don't know to this day why I did that. I still have things that I've made, that
we use. Mostly upstairs, out of the way. But they were not bad. But I was
00:42:00desperate, in those years, to get out of the house, and to do something entirely
different. And I would go to this technical school, where the saws would be so
loud it would blast your brains out. And yet, it was just like music. Just like
music to me. And the smell of the wood, and all that I found very relaxing after
a day with the kids.
And the other thing I did, in those early years, was legalize voters. And I did
that, of course, in the evening. I belonged to an evening group so that I could
just arrange it [UNINTELLIGIBLE]. Also in a way [UNINTELLIGIBLE] established
patterns for me, but I also sang at the university, in those years, in a choral group.
AB: This is still at Washington?
JL: Yeah. And I guess I didn't do singing when I got back here. I got out my
violin, though, and I started playing violin again. I had always taken, my folks
00:43:00were very conscientious about finding the money, I should say, to give us all
music education. And it wasn't in the schools in those years, so you had to do
it on your own. [INAUDIBLE] piano. And then, when instruments did come into the
schools, I was in eighth grade, here in [UNINTELLIGIBLE] school, and I picked
out the violin at that point, and I've kept it up ever since. It's only within
the last five or six years that I've given it up, due to arthritis. And I sold
my violin. I may be sorry about that. I still have one violin, that's my
daughter's. My first violin, my daughter took up, and will eventually get into
it again too, I guess, when her family's of a decent age. But it doesn't
something, music like that on an instrument, isn't something you can just pick
up and do once a week. A violin has to be practiced every day. There's just no
00:44:00getting around it. So eventually, that sort of went by the boards too,. Although
I did play with the community orchestra, [INAUDIBLE].
AB: So you were practicing, you had to practice.
JL: Yeah. I kept that up pretty regularly. In fact, I can remember, Bob often
had his classes out here, his public finance classes, a night class, it was. And
he had one of the regents as a student, at one point. And I'll never forget, I
said, well, Bob, if you have it on Tuesdays, that's OK. But I have community
orchestra that night. And I'll lay out the cookies, whenever they were having, I
don't know what it was. But you have to do it yourself. And I can remember
coming down the stairs with my violin under my arm, and a roomful of students.
And the regent approached Bob afterwards, and said, what is it your wife does?
00:45:00In effect, why isn't she here? And he said, well, he always thought it was good
that I wanted to do that. Now, he really wasn't being critical, the regent
wasn't. But he was interested that I would depart as soon as the company, so to
speak, arrived.
But that was something I did, and Bob's always been extremely supportive of
anything I wanted to do. If I wanted to work or take a job, he would have turned
handsprings to make it possible for me to do that. And so I've never felt
constrained in this way at all, like I think some, perhaps some wives do. That
their husbands really don't want them working. And guess I just felt that was
always an option I had, if I had, in fact, wanted to. But the truth of the
matter is, our family kept us so busy. Kept me so busy. Anybody with four kids
is bound to be. I guess I felt that was number one job.
00:46:00
And we did do entertaining students, all those years. We haven't done it so much
[UNINTELLIGIBLE]. But we do do it. I find that enjoyable. [INAUDIBLE] I don't
feel it's something I have to do, partly, I suppose that's-- If Bob said, well,
you know, this month we have to entertain three groups of students, or
something, or I want all my TAs over for dinner, but it's something we've always
consulted about. [INAUDIBLE] It's been very easy. It's been a nice life. I
haven't found anything onerous about it at all. I really don't.
Do you want me just to ramble this way, really? You want me to ramble this way?
AB: Yeah, exactly. That's fine. We've actually covered just about all of the bases.
00:47:00
JL: One of the biggest pluses, however, if I can talk about a real plus about
being a professor's wife, real advantage, for me, has been the travel aspect of
it. And I guess Bob always know I liked to travel, so maybe we went out of our
way to do some things that he wouldn't necessarily have done, because I think in
his work on poverty and income transfer, that kind of stuff, probably the best
places for him to be are Washington, D.C. and places within the country, but
there have always been opportunities, he has always been asked a lot to go
abroad, and do whatever stint he could do in other countries. And so, whatever
stage we were at, with our family, we decided it was a good stage, for instance,
to pick up and go, and we've done that. Where have you lived? Well, we've lived
in Beirut, back in the '50s, early '50s, and we lived in the Philippines, and in
00:48:00Asia, in Germany, and in Australia. Not full years, always, but chunks of time.
We lived a full year in the Philippines, and a full year in Beirut. But the
others were shorter. Three months.
AB: And did you find those times to be rewarding?
JL: Very rewarding. When young people are thinking about traveling, I've got
nieces [INAUDIBLE] who have thought about traveling in foreign countries, and
taking families. I always say, make sure that your marriage is good and strong
before you go. Because there are so many frustrations in living abroad. That if
you aren't a good strong family with a good marriage, I've seen more marriages
break up overseas than you can shake a stick at. There are just a million
frustrations. And I think young people tend to go over and think, well, I can't
00:49:00stand it here anymore, I'm going to over there, we're going to start a new life,
and this, that and the other thing. And you go over there, and it's a very hard
way to live. If you're living on sort of a professor's salary. You don't have a
chauffeur coming to get you every day, and tend to all your needs. The field, as
they say, is a very hard life.
AB: Where there American schools that your kids went to? How did it work?
JL: In Beirut, our kids were very young. Two of the kids did go to school there.
But it was an American school, it was American University of Beirut, is where it
was, and this school was in conjunction with it. In the Philippines, Tom was at
only in the fourth grade, and they had so many road problems, construction
problems, that the American school was sufficiently far off from where the
University was, in Quezon City, that we decided not to send him to the American
school. As it turned out, so we went to what was called their lab school, at the
campus, and he was maybe one of two Americans kids there. And it was extremely
00:50:00hard on him. I think we probably did make a mistake in not sending him to the
American school. It was a miserable year for him. He became sort of solitary
kid, and a lot of reading at home. He loved to read. But English was supposedly
spoken in the lab school, at the university, but it was spoken badly. And on the
playground, it wasn't spoken at all.
So that really, he suffered. He really, truly did suffer. And he looks back on
that now, and he can talk about it now, of course, and he says that really was a
rough year. But he can, at this stage, sort out some good things about it, too,
and he does remember a lot of things from [INAUDIBLE] that he doesn't regret.
And in Indonesia, that such a culturally rich place, that he learned lots of
00:51:00things, that he could never learn anywhere else. He would love to go back there.
Just to see the dance, and so on.
So it's been a, the travel has been a very enriching time. The oldest boy really
didn't get his share of it, I think. He was sort of, he was in Beirut, that was
the only place he was with us. And we spent some time in England, and our son,
who was a medical student at that time, came over and lived with us, then,
briefly, and did some work over there. So he had that. Becky was a freshman at
the University of Philippines. She had just graduated from high school. And that
00:52:00was OK for her. And then when we went over to Indonesia, she came also, we spent
time with her, and enjoyed that. And she went into Asian Studies because of it. [INAUDIBLE]
So I guess the travel part, for the kids themselves, has been interesting
enough, and for me, it was fantastic. So when would I have ever had a chance to
travel a lot? And I guess that's part of reason so many non-university people
envy us. I don't mean us, I don't mean the Lampmans in particular. But envy
university people. And what they don't know, is a lot of university people don't
get to do that.
AB: Yeah. Or decide, or choose not to, because they do feel it's disruptive.
JL: Well, nowadays, with the women working, the men may want to go, and I've
00:53:00heard this several times over, well, I'd really like to go, but Marge has got
her job, and we just can't do this.
AB: It's nice to have the flexibility to be able to do that.
JL: And I guess I'm just at the age where I don't see myself changing, or moving
into the job market. So I've found all along that that flexibility has been a
real plus in his job, and in our marriage. It's just been a great thing for us.
And we did have a strong marriage, we do have a strong marriage. So when we met
problems, they were easy to handle, and deal with. There are always problems.
00:54:00Any marriage in any profession has them, and I'm not saying it's all been
peaches and cream. But it's been worth it. And we've loved it together.
AB: I think I'll-- that sounds like a good place to end . [UNINTELLIGIBLE] So
you collected [UNINTELLIGIBLE] over these travels?
JL: Whenever we've traveled, my interests seem to be the ones that make the trip
more interesting than his job aspect of it. We couldn't travel, except that he
would be working, and we never just traveled just for the heck of it, just for
the sheer fun of it. But so many good things have come out of it. But mainly,
it's been my interests that have broadened him and broadened us both. For
instance, in England, to go around to the workshops there, the pottery studios
00:55:00and so on, and in Canada, I've done the same thing. When we go to visit my son,
I don't just sit at their house. I look up and find ways to find out who the
potters are, and I will go around, and he will most often come with me. And
music, the same way. He wouldn't go to operas unless I had been terribly
interested in them. And he's enjoyed all that stuff now. He can almost talk it,
which is good, because economics can be a very tight subject.
AB: Yeah, it's nice to have other areas that you can talk about.
JL: And so I figure I've gained a lot from being a faculty wife, and he's also
certainly gained lots in having a wife with some broader interests.
Anyway, I'm really looking forward to retooling again. And I don't do it on any
competitive sort of basis. It's strictly hobby. I can sell enough to pay for my
00:56:00clay, but I don't go to shows.
AB: Do you exhibit?
JL: No, I really don't. I've never done that much, but people who know me will
come over and say, I've got to go to a wedding, and have you got a casserole, or
whatever. And one year, my daughter felt the need, she's got two little kids,
and she felt the need of doing something. She's very artistic, actually, much
more so than I was. She was always doing sculpture, and she said she'd like to
come home and have me teach her to use the wheel, and do some production type things.
So we paid her way, and her two children, to come home one summer, about four
years ago, and we found a babysitter, and every day, the babysitter came, and I
took her down to my studio downstairs, and we threw clay on the wheel, and now
she's teaching. She can teach pottery. And her own kids, I mean, she's just a
wonderfully, wonderfully artistic, creative mother, her own kids are going to be
00:57:00just fantastic artists, they have had it offered to them at a very young age.
And I can see it, in this little girl's drawing, for instance. Not just clay, I
mean, she can do-- she should have been in art school, is what she should have been.
And she worked, incidentally, for a while. She taught school, and now is going
back to get her certificate. She can teach K through 12, and she's going to go
back and get a, I guess it's an M.A. in Elementary Education, out there
[INAUDIBLE] in Seattle, so that she can teach younger kids. She is still most
creative with that age, apparently.
So I feel like she's gotten a good start. Maybe she's doing what I would have
done, if I'd been younger, or times had been different, or whatnot.
00:58:00
AB: My daughter just took a pottery course at the Union for a few weeks, and
really enjoyed it.
JL: Doesn't she go to West High?
AB: No, my daughter's still at Van Hise. My son goes to West High.
JL: Because they have a marvellous pottery teacher there. It's a marvelous
department. You know, when I was a kid, there was no art in schools at all. When
I say, there was an art teacher that came in once a week, and we were told to
draw something. And I mean, had none of the creative aspect of drawing to music,
or whatever they do these days. But there was nothing at-- well I shouldn't say
there was nothing at West High. I actually couldn't, I didn't have time for art
at West High. I was sort of into Latin. Latin and languages, at that point. But
I hear now that the studio, as a matter of fact, I went back there for a reunion
a couple of years ago, [INAUDIBLE] former West High kids, and their studio is
00:59:00fantastic. They've got wheels, and kilns, and a marvellous teacher.
AB: Oh, gosh! She'll be pleased. I'm pleased to hear about that too, because she
can use a little [UNINTELLIGIBLE].
JL: Some of these neighborhood kids here, that knew I did pottery, they've all
been up and seen the wheel and played in the clay a certain amount, one of them
was Chris [UNINTELLIGIBLE]. And he didn't care for school all that much, but he
got really interested in pottery, and did very well over at West High. And
another one was this Olson boy who's just one of Marshall Olson's kids. He's got
four boys. And Doug Olson has been winning prizes at the high school level. And
he's says the teacher over here is absolutely tops. I don't know the teacher,
but there was an article about him in the paper recently. So they've really made
a big effort at West High anyway, I don't know about the other high schools, to
present this to kids. Because there are a lot of turned-off kids these days, and
01:00:00they have a really good art department. It's got to be a lifesaver.
AB: Yeah, I think so. My son's gotten--